Are you a Victor or Victim of the Environment?

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American novelist.
American novelist.

Today I attended a Weight Watchers meeting. What started out as a “fact-finding mission,” has turned into a lifetime membership. I’ve been attending for a year; weighing in weekly and often staying for the meetings. I never thought I would stay, but I find the people and the meeting inspiring. Today we discussed things in the environment that we can’t change.
I went out to eat the other night and noticed that everyone was taking home more than I was eating. There were mounds and mounds of food on everyone’s plate. I kept thinking, if I ate all that food I would just continue to gain weight, but the food looked so appetizing. I heard a little voice say in my head, “It’s not for me.” I guess that’s what going to Weight Watchers for a year will do for you.
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You become what you hand around.
You become what you hand around.

Is your environment unhealthy? Here are some tips for staying on top of it.
1. Remember stress of some form will always be in your life. You may choose to see it as stress or change it to excitement. We may not be able to change the stress but we can change how we react to it.
2. Have an escape plan. If things get too much for you, get out. One of the men said he was so overwhelmed by the food at an open house; he just left via the back door. Occupy your mind with something different. I have a friend who “worries it forward.” Instead of waiting for the “think to happen, “ in her mind, a “possibility that it might” means it has. According to a poll on the health site, for example, roughly 70% of readers find themselves ruminating quite often, and only around 5% find that they are able to let things go almost immediately. To ruminate is one way to think or exercise the mind or one’s power of reason in order to make inferences, decisions or arrive at a solution. Instead of getting done with it, you think about it over and over.  Do you think you’re prone to “ruminating?” Take this test and find some helpful tips to get you away from this habit.
3. Distract yourself from the uncomfortable thing. This will help you forget about it and put together a new plan. You can read a book, turn on the television or take your dog for a walk. Be a good friend and look for positive people.
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Get some exercise
Get some exercise

4. Be mindful of your situation. Instead of going off into the “what if,” become grounded in reality. Reality might not feel like the safest place to be, but you will have more options there.
5. If you’re stressed, make sure you get enough sleep. Without the proper amount of sleep, things look a lot worse. Consider a short nap to perk up your stress coping abilities.
6. The best way to lessen your stress is to go for a run or exercise. Exercise raises your endorphins and will give you energy. The environment continually changes giving us more things to deal with. The better we are with coping the more pleasant our lives.
Lisbeth helps businesses improve their customer service and the customer experience. To have her talk to your team or schedule a call, reach her at 518.495.5380.[/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container]

3 thoughts on “Are you a Victor or Victim of the Environment?”

  1. Lisbeth,
    I love the quote you selected by James Lane Allen.
    As a an IT contract worker I am exposed to a new environment on
    a regular basis. It comes with the territory so to speak. In the early
    days of my career there were old school values and the environment
    was fairly professional. Now its 50-50 whether the environment is
    going to be healthy or toxic. The one thing I never allow is to let myself
    be consumed by the toxic environment. I don’t let them make me feel
    like I’m the problem. At some point you know its time to move on out
    of that situation and surround yourself with a healthy work site.
    You cannot escape your thoughts. What makes you what you are
    the sum of your experiences gets you through the ups and downs
    and keeps you focused on the prize.
    Brian

    1. Brian, I like your statement, you “cannot escape your thoughts.” We certainly are the sum of our experience and hopefully some introspective thoughts and leanings.
      Nice to hear from you; thank you for taking the time. Lisbeth

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