Through the ages we knew who had money by the way they dressed.
Then there was the “dress to impress,” the hippy era, what to wear on a cruise wear and prom attire. Isn’t there a special dress for “the mother of the bride?”
The question remains, do we really care? Apparently so or at least the Wall Street types in their Hermes ties care. Is it really a crash of two cultures and does Mr. Zuckerberg represent the new culture? Maybe it really means “I don’t really care what you think.” Personally I didn’t really like the color–a little too drab for the spring and I wouldn’t have showed up in a hoodie–only because “it’s just not me.”
Maybe the hoodie is what inspired him to build Facebook so it’s really for good luck. We know that professional athletes button their shirts a certain way for good luck and there are salespeople that have lucky shirts, pants and ties; maybe it’s just a hoodie and nothing more. Or like Steve Jobs and his black turtlenecks, it represents good luck.
Of course if I were going to Wall Street to talk about the public offering of my product I would get dressed up. In my case I look for any excuse I can to get dressed up.
Now we’re back to “does it matter what you wear?” Personally I would say it does matter. My hunch is some of that comes from my background and my age and some comes from my preferences. “When in doubt get overdressed” is my motto.
I recently attended International Wool Textile Organisation where the fashion types and the business types merged in the same room. The business types were all dressed in suits and the fashion types were dressed in more interesting outfits. I think everyone was dressing as expected.
There is another expression, “When in Roman do like the Romans.” St. Ambrose coined this expression in 387 A.D. Basically, if you’re in Rome follow their customs.
In sales we we call it building rapport. We feel most comfortable when we are with people who look like us, act like us and yes dress like us. Have you ever been to an occasion when everyone was dressed up and you didn’t get the message? When you’re shopping don’t you feel better when someone your age waits on you? We expect that since we are close in age they probably understand us better or even have a better idea of what we want. Many of my friends with tattoos, despite the fact they consider the tattoos art and “cool”, they often hide them with long sleeve shirts. Somehow there is still a stigma about tattoos. In 30 years the whole country will have tattoos and those without tattoos will be in the minority. A Harris poll from 2003 found that 16 percent of Americans have tattoos and that a whopping 64 percent of those people are in their 20s and 30s. The late senator Barry Goldwater caused quite a stir in 1978 when it was noted that he had tattoo on his left hand. The tattoo was a line and four dots capped by a half circle , the trademark of the Smoki People. I remembered how shocked people were but I doubt the tattoo is what caused him to lose the presidency. Of course there was Winston Churchill and President Roosevelt, both with tattoos.
My thoughts, if you want me to be on your side, it’s best that you do whatever it takes to make me think we’re alike. I looked at some photos of a White House Dinner and Mr. Zuckerberg is wearing a white shirt. My hunch is he did it “because he could.”
Lisbeth helps businesses build loyal customers through sales and customer service training. For a copy of her book, Red Hot Customer Service check out her web site, www.Lisbethcalandrino.com